Turning A “Friend” Into A Lover – Here’s How Pick (via postie)
by admin on Sep.02, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Hi Pick,
o “Turning A “Friend” Into A Lover”
>>> Question From Adrian, Vancouver CA:
Hi Simon. I love your program and I’ve been amazed by your solutions for guys who want to achieve “bulletproof game.” Now I have a question for you.
I am 36 years old and I’m single again after ending a long-term relationship. The woman I was dating was my age, and like most women that age who are unmarried and don’t have kids, she was eager to tie the knot with me and start having babies.
Well, I’m not ready for that. And I’d prefer to have a younger girlfriend who is sexy, fun to be around, and doesn’t have all the “baggage” of a chick my age.
So, I met this total hottie a few months ago. She’s 26 years old. (Perfect.) I was taking some courses at the local community college and she was in one of my classes…
We always talked after class, and we met a few times at the campus library to study together.
I was growing to really like her, but it was hard to understand what she wanted. Sometimes she acted very flirty towards me, and other times she acted cold and distant. She would sometimes call me twice a day to chat, and then she would stop calling me and wouldn’t return my calls for a few days.
I asked her many times to go on a date with me. Once, she agreed to meet me for lunch, but then she called me at the last minute and cancelled.
Our class ended three weeks ago. Now she will not answer my phone calls but we communicate with text messages. She confessed to me that she is still hurting from breaking up with her ex-boyfriend John. She says she loves me as a friend and our friendship is very important to her, but she isn’t ready for another serious relationship.
When I try to get her to meet me, she always has an excuse.
I know she cares about me and if she just wants to be friends, that’s okay. But I need to know if I have a chance of making her my girlfriend.
I hope you have some “bulletproof” advice for me!
>>> My Comments:
I’ll be honest… first off, you need to download this:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1o993jXZtUSIWL&b=H88cGpRopqUWHM3FQiugsA
When it comes to dating younger women, it’s the FASTEST possible way to understand what makes them tick; why they act the way they do, why they do what they do and most important of all, it shows to EXACTLY how to GET them.
Got it?
Great, now on to your question…
You, my friend, have wound up in the Friend Zone. This is a common situation with men who are trying to follow the “normal” rules with women. (In other words, being nice, sweet, respectful, and following her lead… )
Because let’s be honest. Is any guy ever satisfied having a female “friend” to talk to, when what he really wants from her is sex?
Of course not.
And it’s only a matter of time before she meets some other guy who DOES make her feel sexually attracted, and once they start hooking up she’ll no longer have any need to hang out with you.
And do you really need female friends to talk to and share your problems with?
No.
You’ve got your buddies to fill that role in your life, and they can relate to you much better than a chick that makes you feel depressed and sexually frustrated.
So let me give you my Top 6 tips for busting out of the Friend Zone and getting women sexually interested in you…
1. Limit your availability. I’m willing to bet that whenever this girl does call you, you eagerly answer the phone and chat with her for as long as she wants.
You THINK that when you spend two hours on the phone with her, sharing your life stories and telling her about the girl who broke your heart when you were in the tenth grade, you’re building some kind of deep “connection” with her.
But what you’re actually doing is removing ANY sense of mystery about yourself, and letting her know that you have nothing else going in your life… and no other women. This is massively UN-attractive to her.
(I know that when you’re a man who is struggling with his dating life, and haven’t hooked up with a chick in a while, this takes a LOT of discipline. Your instinct is to make yourself totally available to her and try to spend as much time as possible with her. Well, go ahead and keep doing it this way, if you want to keep wondering why women lose interest in you… )
2. Until you’ve slept with a woman, limit your phone chats with her to five minutes. And don’t get caught up in constant text-messaging. Give her the sense that you’re a busy man with places to be.
Use these short phone calls, or text exchanges, to lock down your plans to see her again. Save the deep conversations for when you are actually spending time with her.
3. Women are moody and emotional. Get used to it, and know how to deal with it. When she start acting weird or distant, she is testing you. She wants to see how you will respond.
Do you kiss her ass and ask her “what’s wrong?” Do you get frustrated and angered by her behavior? (Either of these responses will only make her get more moody!)
Or, do you behave like a firm, direct MAN? (Tell her, “Well, I can tell you’ve got some things on your mind right now, so why don’t you take some time to sort it out and get back to me. I’ve got some things I need to handle right now.”)
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4. Her ex-boyfriend is irrelevant. Women commonly use the excuse, “I got out of a bad relationship recently, I don’t know if I’m ready for someone new, I don’t want to get hurt again,” etc. It’s all crap, basically. The truth is, if she met a confident, attractive man RIGHT NOW who made her feel a sexual connection, she’d forget about her ex-boyfriend in about 2.3 seconds.
TRUST ME on this
When she talks about her ex, and how she’s “not ready,” what she really means is that you’re not making her feel attraction, and so she’s testing you to see what kind of man you are.
You need to put her in a positive, fun state of mind and keep her there. When she thinks of you, she should think of fun times and feeling good about herself.
The last thing you want to do is allow her to dwell on her ex-boyfriend and be her “shoulder to cry on.”
If she ever mentions him, change the subject.
And never refer to him by name because it only aggravates her emotional state. (Instead, refer to him as “that guy.” Make him seem irrelevant and insignificant.)
HER: “I guess I’m just in a bad mood today because it would have been my third anniversary with my ex, John…”
YOU: “Well it sounds like that guy didn’t appreciate you the way he should have, and it’s his loss. I’m just glad we’re getting to know each other, because I can tell there’s a lot more to you than meets the eye. So tell me more about ________”
(Change the subject onto something that gets her in a positive, talkative mood).
5. Never confess your attraction to her. Women interpret this as a sign of weakness. You’ve been taught by the media that woman want a soft, sensitive guy who isn’t afraid to confess his feelings. Actually, the opposite is true. She needs to know you are a strong, emotionally secure and confident MAN.
Once you’ve got a sexual relationship going with her, and she’s bonded to you, feel free to be a sweet, loving boyfriend and do all of the romantic things that drive her wild. But until then, you’ve got to play it cool.
6. Finally, be willing to “man up” and walk away. If for whatever reason she just can’t sort out her feelings, cut her loose. Trust me, if you were involved with two or three OTHER women right now, you wouldn’t have the time or the interest to play games with some chick who can’t make up her mind.
When you have multiple options, you will ALWAYS feel confident and in control.
Don’t make the mistake that most guys make, and place “all of your eggs in one basket.”
Once a woman has mentally placed you in “The Friend Zone,” it’s difficult to change her feelings towards you. Ideally, you never want to her to view you as her platonic, non-sexual “buddy” in the first place. This is why when you do meet up with women for a date, you’ve got to take things in a sexual direction.
This doesn’t mean you have to sleep with women on the first date. But you MUST establish some physical contact and make her feel that you’re a sexual possibility for her.
That’s the difference between guys who always suffer in the “Friend Zone,” and guys who GET IT DONE with younger women.
My point is this:
If you don’t make any “moves”, don’t try to kiss her, and don’t confidently lead in a physical way, a woman will only think of you as a “friend”.
Even if there is attraction based on personality, it’s going to disappear if you don’t cross over into the physical realm.
99% of the time, she’s NOT going to be the one to make the first move… it’s just not going to happen.
YOU have to do it.
As you can see, there’s nothing trickier, more fragile than turning a friend to a lover, and if you want to get it ‘just right’ and land that one girl you’ve always wanted, these videos are exactly what you need to be watching:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1o993jXZtUSIWL&b=vNVJPVUIupuvSjz9Hl6kmg
Women change their minds faster than they change bras. If you want to be IN CONTROL of their minds, if you want them to respond EXACTLY the way you want them do WHENEVER you want to, I want you to give this a quick look:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1o993jXZtUSIWL&b=mKRpYeAQWMreUJU2IUqVdw
When you’re done with it, flirting with girls will feel like you’re playing an easy level on a video game that you’ve already beaten.
You will be FLUENT with women…
And that’s when YOU become the guy that makes other guys say, “What’s HIS secret?”
Oh by the way, one of the BIGGEST problems guys have when they meet a girl they like, is that they DON’T KNOW what to say, how to approach her and how to ‘take it from there’ with her. If you want the short and fast answers…
The real keys here are:
1) Knowing WHAT to do to proceed in each situation
2) Knowing WHEN to proceed in each situation
3) Knowing HOW to proceed in each situation… in a way that is smooth and natural… and that doesn’t get you “rejected”
And if you want the entire picture on how everything GELS together; how to meet women, get her number, get her comfortable, to kissing and to getting physical; you should check this out:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1o993jXZtUSIWL&b=ezRgDhrMPApCYE0sb_IPGw
As for the basic FOUNDATION to everything that has been discussed without our newsletter, you can download it right now by going to this page:
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Talk to you soon.
Your Friend,
Simon H
Instant Dating Resources Smart Central, Suite E-10-06 Plaza Mon’t Kiara PO Box 50480, KL MY
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KEEPING A Beautiful Woman Interested In You – Pick (via postie)
by admin on Aug.30, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Hi Pick,
In this issue:
o “KEEPING A Beautiful Woman Interested In You” o Shawna & Her Friends Show You How They Squirt Women o Being The “Hard To Get Man” Women Compete And Fight For o FREE Video (Cool Openers & Pick Up Tricks) o Your Comments, Feedback
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o “KEEPING A Beautiful Woman Interested In You”
I’ve had A LOT of you emailling me telling about your success stories and how my materials have helped CHANGED your social & dating lives.
*sob*
It’s emails like these that make all the energy, time and hard work I’ve put into creating my educational materials worth it. (Thanks guys!)
Anyway, back to what I was saying… you’ve probably got some VERY hot girlfriends right now, as a result of stuff you’ve learned here in our newsletters as well
BUT… this is what I see happening quite a bit these days…
The truth is, even though a big number of you are starting to get the girls, something strange begins to happen…
As soon as they start dating a hot chick, they REVERT BACK to being a needy “wussy guy” who will do anything to keep getting sex from her
So, they keep a hot chick for a few weeks or a few months… but then it all FALLS APART.
Listen.
Most guys go through life without EVER getting the women they truly desire, because they think women are a “mystery” that is impossible to solve.
And so, they try to give a woman the things they THINK women want.
Some guys will spend money on her…
Some guys will always AGREE with her, and never challenge her opinions…
But most often, when a guy likes a woman, he will constantly make himself available to her. He thinks by spending the maximum amount of TIME with her — and making her feel he’s “always there” — she’ll eventually come around and start feeling attraction towards him.
The problem is, attraction does NOT work this way.
When you spend endless hours talking to her about life, and her problems, she may feel AFFECTION towards you.
The same emotion she feels towards her girl friends, and her gay hair dresser…
Or, towards her brother…
Or, her puppy.
But does she want to SLEEP with any of them?! Hell no!!
You see, sexual ATTRACTION is a whole different story. And it does NOT come from giving her gifts, taking her on expensive dates, or giving her all of your time and attention.
In fact, once you make a good first impression, you must LIMIT your time and availablity in order to drive up her interest in you.
I’ll get into this in detail later. You don’t just want to “blow her off” and tell her you’re busy… you want to use SMART TACTICS to frame yourself as “the prize” that she’ll want to win.
If you want to know what it takes to stay out of the “friend zone” with women, and make them ALWAYS view you as an attractive sexual option… and a possible boyfriend…
The kind of guy they can IMAGINE themselves hooking up with, and being happy with… even if you don’t possess the superficial qualities that she thinks she is “supposed to” go for, watch these videos:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=yrtViq3Udb8fq.PNA7IBKw
(Ask a hot chick what type of guy she’s into. She’ll say tall, handsome, funny, rich… but the truth is, NONE of those qualities will matter if she meets a guy who knows how to “push her buttons” and feel REAL sexual attraction.)
Remember, women are NOT a mystery. In fact, they’re pretty simple and transparent. Understanding a woman’s needs and desires is NOT the head-scratching “puzzle” most guys think it is… IF you understand how to cut through all the games and bullshit, and stimulate her “attraction triggers.”
But, because most guys have NOT been having success with women, they assume that this IS a big mystery which they can never solve.
On the other hand, we all know a guy — maybe a co-worker or a friend of yours — who has a way with the ladies.
Maybe you knew a guy in high school, or college, who had an incredible “way with women.”
He wasn’t rich, or incredibly handsome. He wasn’t super “sweet” to girls — actually, he came off a bit arrogant and cocky.
The girls KNEW this guy was a “player”…
And yet for some reason, they COULDN’T RESIST him!
And while this guy is scoring left and right, you and the other guys are wondering, “How the HELL does he do it? What’s his big secret?”
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=60BzwTUsMf9LUd77OPlUPg
In this program, you’re about to learn ALL the secrets. The good news is that it’s NOT a mystery. Success with women is based on rules and principles that any guy can learn, apply, and master.
And all women share core NEEDS and DESIRES that you can learn to identify and capitalize on.
If you’ve been fairly successful with women, you’ve probably been following some of these rules instinctively without fully understanding WHY they work the way they do.
Once you understand WHY these rules work, and how to put ALL of the pieces together, your game will go to a BULLETPROOF level.
Put it this way…
Getting REALLY good with women is similar to learning a foreign language.
You can buy a phrase book, and learn how to say a bunch of different things.
But you’ll never become FLUENT this way.
You’ve memorized some phrases — you can say “good morning,” “how are you,” etc., but you can’t hold an extended conversation in that language.
The only way to become FLUENT is to put your book away, and immerse yourself in the culture.
You’ll learn much more rapidly this way. And soon, you’ll be having full conversations in any situation.
You won’t always be STRUGGLING to figure out how to say the right thing. It begins to flow naturally. It becomes second nature.
Guys who only learn “pickup strategies”… or can get girls sometimes, but don’t understand the RULES of attraction… only know the basics for certain situations.
In most OTHER situations, they struggle.
When you’ve got bulletproof game, you know how to handle EVERY situation with a woman and how to ELIMINATE all obstacles.
What if she’s dating another guy right now?
What if you want to talk to her, or take her home, but you’re worried about “blowing it?”
What if she’s a friend that you want to turn into a girlfriend?
What if she recently went through a breakup, and she says she doesn’t want to date anyone new?
These are just several examples of challenges. There are an ENDLESS number of these that you will face in your quest to get women.
And in this program, you’ll develop the skills and confidence to tackle ANYTHING. If you HAVEN’T grabbed it yet, and you’re STILL allowing women to play their silly little games with you, I want you to give this a quick look:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=60BzwTUsMf9LUd77OPlUPg
When you’re done with it, talking to girls will feel like you’re playing an easy level on a video game that you’ve already beaten.
You will be FLUENT with women…
And that’s when YOU become the guy that makes other guys say, “What’s HIS secret?”
Oh by the way, do you have anything planned this coming weekend?
Anyone special you’d like to date or be with?
If you’re feeling down and all alone, here’s a special page that will show you some quick and easy tactics you can try out to meet a girl and ditch that “lonely” feeling…
In it, you’ll get the entire picture on how everything GELS together; how to approach, meet, date women, techniques on getting her number, making her comfortable with you, kissing, transitioning to getting physical; basically EVERYTHING you need to know when you’re out on a date, I’d recommend you download this and go through all the materials SEVERAL TIMES:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=UP.tNBngf9FgrX71QySQFg
When you UNDERSTAND what is happening, how and why women act the way they do, and how to make women feel ATTRACTION, success with them will eventually come because your behaviors are REAL, they come across as natural, real and as AUTHENTIC as it can EVER be to women.
As for the basic FOUNDATION to everything that has been discussed without our newsletter, you can download it right now by going to this page:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=A0rqpBeqF_BPOm.y0USsTw
Talk to you soon.
Your Friend,
Simon H
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o Shawna & Her Friends Show You How They Squirt Women
Watch Shawna happily suck, lick and ravage her pornstar girlfriends! If you want to know how to give 9 screaming, toe-curling & bed soaking squirting orgasms to your girl in a single night, this is it.
Many of the girls inside are famous adult SUPERSTARS chosen because of their extensive on and off-screen sexual experience and skills. They reveal ALL their *secrets* here:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=UEtK_O9fxkN5OYXVrjClWA
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o Being The “Hard To Get Man” Women Compete And Fight For
Watch this video and you’ll learn exactly how and why ‘bad boys’ ALWAYS seems to get the hot.test women around, bring them home and go ‘all the way’ with them soo easily without ANY form of rejection.
Bad boys ultimately understand that the ‘key’ to creating attrac.tion with women is by EMOTIONALLY STIRRING them, keeping them on their toes wondering “whats going to happen next” with the guy she’s with. It’s fun, it’s UNPREDICTABLE, it’s sooo ‘dangerous’ they can’t help but to LOVE it even more!
You can download your own copy here:
==> http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=ZtW2KiSViNenzlEvm_vLEg
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o FREE Video (Cool Openers & Pick Up Tricks)
To know what’s the FASTEST way to get the woman you want… watch this video!:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1nAWlW.l7kSIWL&b=dBSOU2WcQEgiIyN3Nr_L9w
It’s pretty genius I must say…and it’s totally free!
Creating Emotional Connection With A Woman, Here’s How Pick (via postie)
by admin on Aug.27, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Hi Pick,
If you have followed my newsletters for quite a while, you will realize how I often stress that originality is the most important quality that you can convey to a woman — from the way you dress, to how you approach the ladies and engage them in conversation.
On the other hand, when you fail to make a unique impression, she’s going to automatically lump you in with the last 37 chumps who tried to talk to her — and within three minutes of you paying for her cocktail, she’ll be excusing herself to “go find her friends.”
The key to building a bond with her is to engage her attention and get her to share information about herself.
Then you’ll tell her how much you relate and establish rapport with her. One of my favorite conversational tactics for accomplishing this is using COLD READS.
This technique, which is used by psychics and palm readers, is a way to make the other person feel like you understand what makes them tick, and what they’re going through, without them telling you.
The trick with Cold Reads is that the “observations” you’re making apply to virtually anyone. Yet there are psychological reasons why they work so effectively.
Human beings are self-centered, and we generally accept claims about ourselves that reflect how we wish to be.
Also, people are vain. We want to be seen as unique. Even though Cold Reads are usually vague generalizations — which would apply to your sister, just as they would to the hottie in the VIP room at the club — we want to agree with the person who skillfully “reads” us, and we’ll believe they have unusual powers of perception.
So forget about asking the generic “job interview” questions. (”So what’s your name,” “where are you from,” etc.) Get ORIGINAL with your strategy in order to capture her attention and impress her with your charm and confidence.
If I’m in a club, talking to some babe who’s acting hard to get, I’ll use a Cold Read:
“Y’know, Andrea, I get the sense that a lot of guys get the wrong idea when they first meet you. They think you’re stand-offish and a bit cold. But you’re actually a lot more sensitive, and funny, than people realize.”
Another example: “I get the sense it takes you a while to trust people, because you’ve been hurt before by someone who was really close to you. But the people that do earn your trust, you’re always there for them.”
Or, “I can tell that you’re someone who usually plays it safe and doesn’t take chances, but sometimes you’ve regretted it because you missed out on an opportunity. But then other times, you’re spontaneous and adventurous, and you do take chances…and that’s when you’ve had some of the best times of your life.”
If she agrees with my “read”–and honestly, I’ve never had a woman totally disagree–I’ll follow up by telling her that I can relate, because I’m the same way.
This builds a bond between me and her. In order to solidify the bond, I’ll tell a quick story — one that illustrates how I’m the same type of person.
(If you’ve got five Cold Reads ready to use, you should also have five short stories to illustrate how you embody those same qualities.)
Here’s another cool one: “I can tell something has been weighing on your mind. You’re on the verge of making an important decision in your life, aren’t you.”
Pretty much all of us, at any given time, are contemplating a big decision (or one that is big to us, at least). Regardless, she’ll be surprised and impressed that you knew that about her.
She’ll volunteer more information about herself — and now you’re engaged in a deep, authentic conversation instead of trying to fill awkward silences.
Much of what a cold reader does is simply repeating back what the subject has said. If she affirms that she’s on the verge of making a big decision, you should nod wisely and say, “Yes, that’s right, and you’re really having a hard time with it.”
Act as if you already KNEW what she was going to say!
Some other Cold Reads that are vague yet “profound”:
“I can tell you have a strong need for others to like and admire you, but you also have a tendency to be critical of yourself.”
“You’ve got a hidden talent, or a passion, that most people don’t know about, and you want to pursue it– but something is holding you back.”
“At times, you’re really social and outgoing. But other times, you’re reserved and introverted.”
Once you add Cold Reads to your conversations with women, you’ll get a feel for which ones work best.
This is just one example of an original, thought-provoking conversational tactic.
To learn the COMPLETE arsenal, and how to use them with expert precision in any situation, download this:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1k5SzdNDQkSIWL&b=LRNyRMYd3_U3uzwftSH2Cw
I’m still getting asked this question A LOT…
“How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend…”
You like her, but you’re afraid of screwing your relationship up if she didn’t feel the same and things become awkward between the both of you. It’s every guy’s ultimate nightmare.
And who can blame them?
There’s nothing trickier, more fragile than turning a friend to a lover, and if you want to get it ‘just right’ and land that one girl you’ve always wanted, these videos are exactly what you need to be watching:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1k5SzdNDQkSIWL&b=HKzaRczQbzZxkY8h22UklA
Most guys go their whole lives with entirely the wrong idea about “what women want”. And because of it, they live in a reality that never works for them.
If you want a detailed, complete education… from top to bottom, start to finish on overcoming fear, approaching women, starting conversations with women, and taking things to a “physical” level… this is it:
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1k5SzdNDQkSIWL&b=i3nRQQckuOzl8T.moORVQw
I’ll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
Simon H
Instant Dating Resources Smart Central, Suite E-10-06 Plaza Mon’t Kiara PO Box 50480, KL MY
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X Reveals His “Secrets” To 1300 Women Pick! (via postie)
by admin on Aug.27, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Hey Pick,
When I first exposed “X” (the dude who slept with 1300 women) days ago, I was immediately SLAMMED with emails from you guys who wanted to know who he was and how he actually did it in such a short period of time.
(You can find out how he did it here just in case you missed it the last time):
http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=OplcF&m=1b6c.OvbNUSIWL&b=ItPN5u2zF9lHMsELy_YGKQ
I didn’t want to dissapoint any of you so guess what??… X IS IN DA HOUSE!!
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>>> From X:
Thanks Simon and judging from your responses, it’s great to know how much you guys have been enjoying my stuff and to sum up the long and short of how I “did” it, it’s all about knowing how to bring out a woman’s wild side… a woman’s secrets…
Yup… women have A LOT of secrets.
Her life is like her purse – stuffed full of *secrets*, and getting bigger every year.
The problem is that when you meet a woman, you don’t know what ANY of them are.
Imagine how different things would have been if you have known what those little “secrets” are?
- Like the time she blew that guy out on the dance floor… sucked on it like there’s no tommorow
- Or how she gets a certain “high” doing “it” in public places…
- Or how she secretly likes doing “naughty”, slutty little things to you but was just too shy to say any of it at all??!
Wouldn’t it save you a whole bunch of frustration if you could just find a way to get her to reveal some of these deep, dark secrets at the get-go… right at the very start?
Not to mention that if you get a woman to reveal her DARKEST secrets about herself, you make it 10x EASIER to take her home and sleep with her!
Master this and you will be GREAT at seducing women, because once a woman has opened up and revealed herself to you, she’s yours for the taking.
#1: Get her to tell you a childhood secret.
This is where it all begins. By getting her to invest a little with you by telling you this, she’s going to start opening up more to you.
Start small.
I usually ask her: “So I bet you were a real ‘nice girl’ when you were growing up. I bet you never got into trouble.”
Then she’s going to smile and laugh, and say something like, “Yeah, right!”
Then you challenge her again, and tell her: “Oh, really? What, like you made a prank phone call? I don’t know… Tell me what you did that was so ‘bad.’”
That will push her into revealing something about herself to you.
#2: Get her to tell you about her wildest night out with her girlfriends – and something wild that one of her FRIENDS did.
This one is the “gateway drug” for a woman that gets her to let down her guard and really open up.
You see, when a woman is out with her friends, she does things that she might not normally do. Not freaky in a sexual way, but just wild because her girlfriend’s behavior gets her to act more like the group than herself. It’s the mob mentality.
What you’re doing is getting her to start thinking about those wild times, even if she doesn’t tell you about all of them.
In fact, she will probably hold back on 90% of the crazy shit she did on those wild nights.
But what’s easier for her to reveal is something one of her friends did on one of those crazy nights. Hey, it’s not HER, after all, and it’s easier to talk about someone else’s wild shit.
The key to this step is – don’t be judgmental!
Don’t make any comments that make it seem like you’re judging her friend negatively, or against that kind of behavior.
Tell her that’s all cool, and you wish you’d been there to see it yourself.
#3: Reveal a dark secret of your own.
This is really key.
A woman has a radar that tells her when she’s “clicking” with someone. And one of the biggest parts of that is when she senses that she’s getting as much from you as she’s giving. This enables a sense of connection from her.
So what you have to do is to think ahead and plan out what you will give up as your sacrificial lamb – your dirty secret.
What I usually tell women about is the time I was playing with my cute cousin, when we were just getting to be around 5 or 6 years old.
We were pretending we were a married couple and we would go off to work, and kiss each other goodbye. Hey, we didn’t know any better, we were just kids. But it was kinda wrong, but still fun at the same time.
Now most women like that story because they’ve encountered some guy that they would like to have had but couldn’t because of some taboo (typically he was married.)
I suggest the story be absolutely true, because bullshit won’t work here. She’ll figure it out in a heartbeat, and you’ll actually hurt yourself in the trust area.
You have to have a lot of detail in your story, too. That will make it more convincing, and it will draw her in like bees to honey.
#4: Get her to reveal her “dark little secret.”
After you’ve told her your story, this is the perfect time to spring this on her.
You see, there’s this little psychological principle called the “reciprocity” rule. It means that if you do something for someone, they feel compelled to do something for you to return the favor.
To not do anything would leave an outstanding debt on them that they don’t want. (This is also why most people refuse the most basic of favors from you – especially strangers.
You can’t do nice things for people because they’ll feel indebted to you.)
But this works for you because now she will want to reveal something to you to “pay back” this debt of trust.
The key here is to make sure she’s really giving you a good “dark secret” in exchange. Some women come up with some really lame shit, like they shoplifted a pack of gum.
If she does this, you can’t accept it. You have to call her on it by saying, “Oh, now come on… I gave you something really good there, and that’s the best you can come up with?
You must be some kind of innocent girl that’s never even kissed a guy before.”
You tease her into going further and telling you more.
Now you see what we’ve done here?
We’ve moved her along the trust line from mild disclosure (small secrets) to the big muthafuckas (DARK secrets.)
Oh, something really important here: If she does finally tell you something dark, you do NOT make fun of her. She went out on a limb by revealing this to you, so you need to make sure you don’t violate her trust by making her feel like a fool for doing that.
When she’s done, buy her a drink to reward her. Then do what you did before for her friend and express nothing but approval.
Then take her home and bang her the rest of the night… Because now she’ll want to act consistently with this new “bad girl” image you’ve helped her create.
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Pick – You Get Women You PREPARE For (via postie)
by admin on Aug.24, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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“You Get Women You PREPARE For” By Scot McKay
You know well enough by now that we talk a lot around here about “deserving what you want”.
The premise is simple but often overlooked:
In order to get a great woman, you’ve GOT to be the kind of man who deserves her.
A day or two ago I was conversing with a friend when something very interesting came up. If “deserving what you want” is what you are all about, then by the very nature of things YOU are also becoming who a great woman deserves in the process… which is a great thing.
Of course, this also means that RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW not only is the bar at a certain level in so far as who you will successfully attract, but YOU are also who a certain cross-section of women is EXPECTING to attract.
And my friend and I couldn’t help but agree that people tend to attract EXACTLY who they’ve prepared themselves to meet.
Case in point.
The other day I was visiting a particularly well-traveled forum in the “men’s dating advice” world when several posts caught my eye, all centered around a common theme:
How all women — especially American ones (according to American guys, natch) — were basically lying manipulators who’ll cuckold you and take all your money someday.
It was like a train wreck.
I didn’t want to look, but I couldn’t help myself.
And the more I read, the clearer the picture became.
To say these guys were a little… um… BITTER was an understatement. And the most unfortunate part was that the threads continued for pages and pages, all in a chorus of high-fives and hand pounds.
There was not one dissenting viewpoint represented.
It was then it occurred to me.
All the guys who would potentially disagree weren’t hanging out in that forum complaining. They were probably too busy out enjoying the company of a great woman.
Guys all over the place are GETTING exactly what they PREPARE FOR from women.
Rest assured, there are plenty of women out there who are warm, generous, playful, fun, virtuous and–yes–faithful AND beautiful.
Some even have their own six-figure incomes and don’t really need your money. Seriously. And most are great in bed too (because they deserve to be).
Can you believe that?
Do you think that I’m a naïve dreamer who’s kidding himself?
Do you think Emily is less than genuine?
Are friends of mine who have, like me, dated HUNDREDS of women each only to ultimately select ONE GREAT WOMAN (notably Stephen Nash and my new friend Kelly aka Song_Bird from Social Rockstar) all fooling themselves and doomed to life in “The Matrix”?
Well, whatever lets you sleep at night.
Except I think it’s really keeping you awake at night.
What if it’s all true?
What if there really are great women out there?
Deep down you probably know there are indeed.
But here it is:
You are attracting into your life EXACTLY the kind of woman you expect to meet… WHATEVER she’s like.
This really isn’t a “Law Of Attraction” thing either, necessarily. It’s actually all about LEADERSHIP, really.
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Lookit.
If you have no respect for women and believe that they are generally selfish, manipulative, morally bereft beings who are only good for the purpose of sexual release… then so be it.
That’s your choice.
And congratulations — you deserve what you want.
You’ll continue to meet a steady stream of women who tend to believe that “all men are dogs”, that you “only want one thing” and that you’re inherently untrustworthy and must be tapped of your “natural resources” before you spend everything on gambling and “gentleman’s clubs”.
You’ll grow more frustrated by “man haters” in equal measure with the disdain you express for them.
But the truth remains true whether it’s acknowledged or not.
There indeed ARE great women out there who respect and actually LIKE men, and want to be good to them.
But a woman like that is not about to get mixed up with a guy who doesn’t believe she exists! And on the flip side, no man who respects women and has mastered the art of igniting femininity is going to put up with a woman who hates men.
He has reserved the right not to have to.
The most breathtaking part of this whole scenario is how focused one’s tunnel vision can become in a very short amount of time.
Sooner than later, if you choose to believe that all MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) are bad news you are going to be one lonely dude…and a sexually frustrated one, too, for that matter.
All because your core belief will have become in a very real way your reality
So why doesn’t everyone — man or woman–wake up to what’s going on?
The answer is a simple one.
Blame is the path of least resistance.
Were someone to believe that there were MOTOS out there who did indeed live up to a higher standard, he or she would have to look squarely in the mirror.
And that, friends and neighbors, is often more painful to bear than the loneliness of a world where all MOTOS are pretty much the enemy.
Or is it?
Who knows for sure.
It seems like many of us are too lazy to test the premise… at all.
Complaining is hella easier than deserving what you want, huh?
If so, don’t be surprised when it’s only you and those who are like-minded keeping each other company on the forums.
Your female counterparts will be waiting for you over on “Oprah” and “Jenny Jones”.
Yeah well, don’t be that guy.
It’s not automatic.
You can choose NOT to fall for the hype.
Do you have the guts as a man to step up and claim leadership over your right to deserve great women in your life?
If so, you are already further along the path to deserving the highest echelon of women on Earth than most men, shockingly enough.
You’ll have to excuse me now…Emily is telling me she has a bubble bath ready.
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I’m going to share with you every secret to effective relationship management that I’ve got — no holding back.
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Oh how can I forget…
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It’s one of the most frequently asked questions I get… til now.
You like her, but you’re afraid of screwing your relationship up if she didn’t feel the same and things become awkward between the both of you. It’s every guy’s ultimate nightmare.
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Most guys go their whole lives with entirely the wrong idea about “what women want”. And because of it, they live in a reality that never works for them.
If you want a detailed, complete education… from top to bottom, start to finish on overcoming fear, approaching women, starting conversations with women, and taking things to a “physical” level… this is it:
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Most guys wind up either settling for a woman that is “the best they can get”, or they wind up alone.
PLEASE DON’T BE ONE OF THEM.
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I’ll talk to you again soon.
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by admin on Aug.21, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Getting A Woman To Say YES! Every Single Time – Pick (via postie)
by admin on Aug.18, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Hi Pick,
Here’s a quick story about a date I had last night.
Now, when you’re trying to score with a woman, you’ve got to eliminate her feelings of UNCERTAINTY.
Women have all kinds of reasons to NOT talk to us, to NOT give us their phone number, to NOT go on a date, and to NOT have sex with us.
And a lot of this is because they don’t feel SECURE with you yet.
So here’s a real fast tip if you want to take a woman on a date…
Don’t offer to pick her up. This might set off “red flags” in her mind. If she barely knows you, she might not want you to know where she lives.
This is understandable. A lot of guys (not like you) have stalker-ish tendencies, and maybe she’s been through this with a guy before. Or maybe she knows a girl who has.
So if you barely know the girl, but you got her phone number, and now it’s time to take her out, don’t suggest picking her up.
Here’s what you do instead. Tell her to meet you out in front of your place. Give her your address, tell her to meet you out front at a certain time, and tell her that the two of you can “roll together” to the spot.
(The bar, coffee shop, restaurant, party, etc — wherever you plan on taking her tonight.)
She’ll go for this suggestion because of two reasons:
A) It eliminates her fear that she’s going to have to try to find the date location, and she might get lost. You’re making it easy on her by suggesting that the two of you go there together.
B) She’s probably going to be curious to see where you live. You didn’t tell her that she’d be coming INSIDE your place. You only asked her to meet you out front. But still, she’s curious to at least see the exterior of your pad.
So now, here’s what you do. When she pulls up outside your place, you go outside, as if you’re all ready to go on the date, and ask her if she wants to take two cars, or if she wants to ride in your car.
Either way she answers, here’s what you do next: you tell her that you forgot something back inside your place. You tell her you need to do back inside for a minute.
And then you INVITE her to come in — “just for a minute,” you tell her.
So, you bring her into your place, and you let her hang out in the living room for a few minutes while you go into the other room and pretend to be getting the item that you forgot.
And then, you go with her on the date.
What was the purpose of this exercise? It’s actually SUPER important. You showed her the inside of your home and you let her get familiar with it.
It is no longer a strange environment to her.
There is no longer a “fear of the unknown.”
At the end of the date, when you invite her back to your place, this doesn’t feel SCARY to her because she has ALREADY been inside your home, and knows that it’s comfortable and inviting.
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This sounds like a simple Tactic, but it really works. I ALWAYS try to show a woman the inside of my home, just for a few minutes, before I take her out on a date.
And you know what?
NOT using this Tactic, when I would invite her back to my place at the end of the night, I’d be successful around 40% of the time.
When I DO USE this Tactic, girls come home with me around 90% of the time. (And when they come home with me, I know how to close the deal — it’s all in the Persuasion Program.)
It all comes down to FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN.
Women are big on this. Guys are not!
(If a girl was HOT, I would drive in the middle of the night to the WORST part of town just to get laid! I wouldn’t care where she lived — I was going for the sex!)
But if you invite a woman back to YOUR place… and she has never seen it before…maybe she worries that it’s filthy, or that you have a bunch of roommates, or that it’s too far away, or whatever…there all kinds of little “red flags” popping off in her mind about why maybe going to your place is NOT a good idea.
And that’s when she’ll say, “Umm, thanks, but not tonight, I need to be up early tomorrow…”
Well, you AVOID all of this, and set her mind at EASE, when you “preface” the date by inviting her inside for a few minutes.
Then, at the end of the night, when it’s time to invite her home…it feels to her like a MUCH safer and more comfortable scenario, because she’s already been inside.
I’ve only scratched the surface of it, but if you want the really “killer” stuff and if you want access to HUNDREDS of OTHER ways to make women feel comfortable with you, and willing to say “yes” to whatever road you are leading her down to, just download everything here:
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It was created in a way that will help you “get it”, to understand the psychology and dynamics of becoming the kind of person that a woman will be attracted to… SEXUALLY.
And you BECOMING that person, ‘rebranding’ yourself again to her, and changing her perception of you ENTIRELY.
Inside, you’ll learn how to shift the ‘just friends’ energy right into a more seductive, EDGIER one along with how to build “chemistry” and “sexual tension” with women in every type of situation… IMMEDIATELY.
I’ve obviously given you the “tools” to get the “results” you’ve always wanted with women, get your dating & social life together AND take things to the next level…
THE REST IS UP TO YOU.
Carpe diem baby.
I’ll see you again soon.
Your Friend,
Simon H
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by admin on Aug.17, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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“Impress” A Woman WITHOUT Impressing Her, Pick (via postie)
by admin on Aug.15, 2010, under Latest from the WorldWideWeb
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Hi Pick,
I’m curious:
When you think about striking up a conversation with a girl, how do you picture it going in your mind?
Be honest now…
If you’re like 90% of guys, you think conversation is about getting to know her, having her get to know you, and just being casual and laidback.
Just go with the flow, right?
Well, NOT if you want to get results.
If you want to GUARA.NTEE that you get her phone number and meet her for a date in the future … or, bring her home TONIGHT (if the situation allows for it) … you’ve got to get STRATEGIC with the way you converse with women.
Conversation is a TOOL that is going to get you where you want to go. But in order to use this tool correctly, you’ve got to learn how to apply it and MASTER it.
This means no more awkward silences, while you wonder what to say next … or feeling phony because you’re relying on some stupid “pickup routine” you learned from some so-called guru (who probably has trouble getting laid himself).
As a MAN, you’re going to CONTROL the conversation and guide it along.
You’re not just talking aimlessly, going with the flow, chatting about whatever topic she brings up.
There is going to be a definite PURPOSE to every conversation you initiate with a woman, and a RESULT you are steering it towards.
See, when a “MAN” converses with a woman, it SEEMS like a normal conversation … on the surface.
The woman doesn’t suspect anything out of the ordinary: he just seems like a cool guy who has interesting things to say.
But under the surface, he is executing a game plan.
He is building a RAPID CONNECTION with her.
He makes her feel a level of COMFORT with him that the average guy couldn’t create, even after spending hours with her!
I swear by this stuff. When I meet a girl and converse for ten minutes with her, I create a sense of COMFORT and FAMILIARITY that most guys would never get after spending two hours on a date with her.
One of my students, Greg, has gotten really good at this. If you see Greg at a bar chatting with a girl, they’ll be laughing, touching each other’s arms, looking like a couple who’ve known each other for a long time.
But usually, this is a girl that Greg met only MINUTES ago!
Now THAT’S the “magic” that happens when a guy “gets it”.
Greg “got it” and he was then able to easily cut through all the crap, all the awkwardness and phoniness, and you create a REAL connection.
How would you feel if YOU could do the same?
Think about the POWER and CONFIDENCE you’ll have as you’re out with women.
Women can “sense” these “things”.
… and they’ll *secretly* love it to death!
It makes them feel safe, secure; being with a REAL man, at the same time, feeling all *girly girl* inside.
What if you could ALSO learn how to slip through the BARRIERS that women put up (this is their natural defense mechanism which they use to “screen out” all the WRONG guys).
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We go into a lot of detail about this. You’ll learn ALL of the steps that go into making a successful approach, building a bond, establishing comfort and rapport, and leading the encounter towards “closing the deal.”
For now, let’s run down a few key pointers:
Keep the spotlight on her. Women love a man who listens and appreciates what she has to say. The more details she shares about herself, the stronger the connection grows. (It’s all about knowing how to ask the right questions. Phrasing is everything.)
Cut through the small talk and take it to a deeper level. Don’t get stuck talking about jobs. Mention the things you are most passionate about, and get her to share hers.
(Get her to reveal a goal or a dream of hers, and be encouraging and supportive, and you’re really in the door … )
If you’re passionate about your work, that’s great. But don’t dwell on the present. Talk about future possibilities.
And remember, if you’re not yet where you want to be, in terms of money and success, you can generate strong attrac.tion from women if you show AMBITION and PASSION.
(The Conversation Escallation Program has an amazing section on this as well)
You see, an ambitious, passionate guy makes her feel, “this guy’s life is on an exciting, positive track. It would be cool to be a part of it.”
Maintain a sense of mystery. During the initial conversation, it’s best to leave questions about yourself unanswered. Make her want to find out more.
Here are some examples…
Which sounds better?
“I work at a restaurant.”
Or…
“I work in the restaurant industry. Right now I’m learning all I can about the business, because a few years from now I plan on opening my own place. It’s always been a goal of mine. What about you…I get the sense you’re an ambitious person, is there a goal you’re working towards right now?”
(Here, you demonstrated ambition and passion, then you turned the spotlight back onto her.)
Which sounds better?
“I’m between jobs right now…”
Or…
“I’m checking out a number of different business opportunities right now, I like to stay busy. What about you, how do you spend your days when you’re not working?”
Or, you might have achieved some success in your career. In this case, don’t boast about it or go into detail.
Just ALLUDE to the fact that you’re a sharp, successful guy with even bigger things on the horizon.
“Let’s just say I’m good at what I do and I’m very well compensated. The hours are long, but I love it… and I’m learning so much right now that I’m looking into launching my own business. Have you ever thought about starting your own business?”
Any negative can be spun into a positive, and any positive can be phrased so that it BUILDS YOU UP in her eyes.
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